Walk with Me: To Iriya for a Special Event

November 15, 2025

Today’s happening is not the usual stroll through beautiful parks or charming neighborhoods, nor is it a quiet afternoon browsing the famed libraries of Tokyo.

For me, this walk carries symbolic weight. It feels like a step toward better understanding—or at least better awareness—of the political landscape back home.

Dirty, complex, confusing, exasperating: these are only a few of the words I’ve used to describe that world for as long as I can remember. All these years of being away, despite the many social and political upheavals the country has endured, nothing seems to have truly changed. No meaningful progress. No genuine improvement felt by ordinary people.

So why do I still care? Why do I still think about it?

Because the frustration hasn’t left me. But at some point, I told myself that instead of trying to change the system—something far beyond my control—I would change what I can within my own sphere. I promised myself that I would always protect my family from scheming people and do whatever I could to ensure none of us falls victim to injustice.

Still frustrated, yes—but the hopeful part of me refuses to disappear. And so I find ways to stay informed. To understand what is truly happening in the country. To learn from the wisdom of those who witness these realities firsthand. Because someday, that knowledge may help me make better decisions—for myself and for my loved ones.

And so today, I found myself joining friends who share my worries and aspirations. About seventy of us gathered in a rented meeting space in Iriya to meet the organizers—courageous volunteers dedicated to guiding Filipinos in Japan toward truth—and engage in a casual yet meaningful conversation with four respected individuals whom I personally admire as champions of truth.

These four need no lengthy introduction. By now, many know them—whether through social media or mainstream news—as leading voices for Truth and Facts amid the dangerous rise of fake news and opportunistic manipulation.

Christian spoke passionately about the importance of civic education.
He said, “Do not give up on your friend or neighbor who may be misled. Share what you know to be true. You may help them choose right over wrong.”

Prof. Cielo shared that her efforts to promote good governance are slowly bearing fruit as more local governments adopt the OpenInfra Ordinance—a step toward transparency and public oversight. Proof that we are not lacking in good people with sound judgment.

Ronnie Holmes warned about the weakening rule of law brought on by the intensifying clashes between two opposing forces in government—an internal conflict already dividing society. He reminded us that 2028 will be a crucial moment, and that the choice will be ours to make.

Sen. Edu, with his characteristic candor, urged everyone to do their part in lifting the nation out of its current “hellish” condition. “We must hand over a better Philippines to the next generation,” he said.

I left the venue hoping—and praying—that conversations like this continue.
That they multiply.
That they spark even the smallest shift that could eventually pull us out of the quagmire.

Walk with Me: Celebrating a Milestone Birthday

August 30, 2025 (Saturday)

A very dear friend, one of the younger ones in our close circle, is celebrating a milestone birthday! We are a merry bunch who have either crossed or are just about to cross our own milestone years—though only a few birthdays apart. You could say we embody the adage “Sixty is the new Forty,” and we say it proudly, without the painstaking efforts or pricey skincare regimens.

Does living in Japan have something to do with this? Hard to say. But studies show that people today are generally living longer, healthier lives. Perhaps what really makes the difference is that we’ve each learned to embrace life at every stage, to be comfortable in our own skin, and to carry just the right “attitude.”

By some stroke of luck, we found each other years ago through common friends, quickly bonded as one Barkada, and have since promised to celebrate each other’s special days—or any extraordinary event, really. If memory serves me right, we’re also approaching another milestone together: close to two decades of friendship!

For this celebration, we chose a chic restaurant in the Marunouchi area for a birthday lunch. The place happens to be on the Bib Gourmand list of the Michelin Guide Tokyo—so we knew we couldn’t go wrong. And indeed, we didn’t. With its high ceilings, unique artworks, and elegant table layout, the restaurant had a sophisticated vibe. Most importantly, the food and drinks were delicious, well worth more than the lunch fare.

We share values and interests that transcend nationality and culture. Even if our gatherings don’t happen as often as we’d like, we make the most of them. A day together can start with lunch, spill into a stroll through a nearby park, end at a café—or sometimes a karaoke bar. And walk we certainly do, happily combining fun with a little exercise.

Achievement of the day: 7,726 steps.

The Library Series

July 5, 2025

Musashino Place

Have you seen that Facebook post about Mang Nanie, the retired accountant who turned his garage into a public library? Wanting to share his love of books and promote reading among neighborhood kids, he created a space that’s now gone viral—so much so that even international media like Al Jazeera picked up the story!

Today, he’s known as Nanie Guanlao, founder of Reading Club 2000. The library he started still thrives and continues to inspire communities all over the Philippines.

Meanwhile, here in Japan, reading has always been deeply woven into the culture. A great example is Kanda-Jimbocho—Tokyo’s famed “book town,” where bookshops, publishing houses, and literary cafés line the streets. It’s a haven for bibliophiles and casual readers alike.

Inspired by these stories, I felt drawn back to libraries—the quiet sanctuaries I loved growing up, places of comfort, curiosity, and joy.

I thought I’d begin this journey with some of Tokyo’s well-known public libraries, but also hoped to stumble upon a lesser-known gem. And that’s how Google led me to Musashino Place.

Just a few steps from the South Exit of Musashi-Sakai Station on the JR Chuo Line, Musashino Place is hard to miss with its striking, beehive-inspired modern design.

Although it’s a public library open to everyone, borrowing privileges are reserved for residents and students of the Musashino area.

With two floors dedicated to books, newspapers, and magazines; one floor for arts and crafts; and another for children’s and teen activities—it’s more than just a library. It’s a full-on cultural center rooted in the heart of the community. And yes, the café on the ground floor is a definite bonus—great food in a cozy atmosphere!

It’s a welcoming space for all. My little adventure on the JR Chuo Line was more than worth it.

Walk with Me – San Pablo, Laguna

Easter Sunday, April 20, 2025, was the day my brother Ariel returned to our Creator after a long battle with complications from a brain tumor. Surrounded by his children, grandson, and the rest of our family who came home to spend Easter with him, Ariel passed peacefully, enveloped in love.

My sister quickly connected me by phone, and I was able to witness that final, inevitable moment. It was heartbreaking to see him go. But we took comfort in knowing his pain was over—he was finally at peace with our Lord.

I remembered that some years ago, during one of my vacations home, Ariel had truly enjoyed our family outing to a charming place in San Pablo, Laguna. Just about an hour and a half’s drive from home, it had left a lasting impression on all of us.

Sulyap Gallery Café and Restaurant. It has since become our family’s favorite spot in Laguna.

Set on a two-hectare property, Sulyap is a complex featuring a café and restaurant—its main draw—alongside Bed and Breakfast accommodations housed in restored Filipino-style casas built of wood and stone. There are lush gardens throughout, and the Sulyap Museum holds antique furniture, santos, religious artifacts, ceramics, and countless other beautiful pieces from a bygone era.

In the summer of 2024, I traveled to Toronto, Canada, to celebrate the wedding of my nephew, Gabriel, and his long-time sweetheart, Catherine. During the festivities, the newlyweds mentioned Japan as one of their dream destinations, eager to visit when they could take a well-deserved break from work.

I didn’t have to wait too long—they're here now! This is Gabriel’s second time in Japan and Catherine’s first, yet both share the same adventurous spirit. One thing is certain: this trip isn’t just about sightseeing—it’s a much-anticipated food adventure!

Their journey began in Tokyo, where they were greeted by beautiful early spring weather—a refreshing contrast to the snowy landscapes of Toronto. Exploring Asakusa and Ginza, we savored the vibrant atmosphere, a perfect prelude to their immersive Japanese experience. But their excitement didn’t end there. The next stop? The dynamic metropolis of Osaka!

Our adventure officially began at Tokyo Station. With some time to spare, we explored the sophisticated Marunouchi area, where Gabriel and Catherine’s fascination with skyscrapers became apparent. This part of the city perfectly blends urban development with heritage preservation, offering a glimpse into Tokyo’s architectural evolution—a theme that would continue throughout our journey.

Aboard the Nozomi Shinkansen, the two-and-a-half-hour journey to Osaka felt like a transition into an entirely different world. The language, culture, sights, sounds, and even the scents of the city had their own distinct character.

Osaka’s unique Kansai culture is one of its biggest draws. The street food scene is legendary—many global food trends can trace their origins back to this vibrant city. It’s no exaggeration to say that Osaka’s dynamic culinary culture has played a significant role in Japan’s tourism boom.

But beyond its modern charm, Osaka remains deeply rooted in tradition. A visit to the city wouldn’t be complete without seeing its iconic landmark, Osaka Castle. Built in 1583 by the shogun Toyotomi Hideyoshi, the castle stands as a symbol of Japan’s unification era—a breathtaking reminder of the country’s rich history.

While I was captivated by the historical and culinary treasures of Osaka, Gabriel and Catherine had their eyes set on something else—something I hadn’t even noticed before. Thanks to social media, Osaka’s Lovelock Wall had become a must-visit attraction for couples. Inspired by similar romantic traditions in Paris and Florence, the Umeda Sky Building transformed its top floor into a dreamy locale where lovers seal their commitment with heart-shaped padlocks.

At first, I thought my nephew and his wife were simply intrigued by Osaka’s towering skyscrapers. But as we reached the Umeda Sky Building, it became clear—the Lovelock Wall had drawn them in. Of course, they’re on their honeymoon!

Their joy was infectious, and seeing them embrace this romantic tradition made our Osaka adventure all the more special. As we continued exploring, I couldn’t help but smile—this trip was shaping up to be an unforgettable journey of love, discovery, and, of course, incredible food!

January 19, 2025

Home in Biñan for a very important family affair that I can’t miss. I am to be a godmother or sponsor to my niece on her wedding day on the 22nd of January.

With a few days to spare, we planned a mini-reunion lunch with cousins and a get-together with the soon-to-be-wed couple before their big day.

Taking the initiative, I searched for a venue that would be convenient for everyone, as family members are now scattered across the metropolis, far from their hometown of Biñan. For our grand lunch, I was drawn to the eclectic charm of Tigerleaf, an Asian fusion restaurant at Evia Lifestyle Center.

Located in Daang Hari, Las Piñas, Evia is a relatively new premier shopping and entertainment destination.

The mall itself sets the tone for what to expect at a place like Tigerleaf. Upon entering, we were greeted by the breathtaking Atrium, a vast expanse reaching up to five or six floors high! It’s a sight to behold. Moving on, we strolled through the Promenade, aptly named for its relaxed, park-like ambiance—perfect for a leisurely walk. If you’re simply there to "pasyal," this space is satisfying on its own.

When hunger struck, we made our way to the Piazza. From there, it’s a quick ride up the escalator to the second level, where Tigerleaf awaits at the far end. Its vibrant colors and intricate designs draw you in instantly. The decor is an enchanting mix of old-world furniture, chandeliers, and colorful fabrics—a nod to the countries that inspire its cuisine: Vietnam, Thailand, the Philippines, and even hints of Spain and Mexico.

Tigerleaf did not disappoint. The cuisine was superb, and everyone agreed that their Lumpiang Ubod was a standout, exceeding all expectations. The staff’s warmth and charm added to the experience, making us feel right at home and eager to return.

Evia itself impressed as an all-in-one destination. Rain or shine, the fun doesn’t stop. It’s an indoor park, a shopping haven, and a food lover’s paradise rolled into one. Truly, there’s something for everyone.

This gathering was a memorable prelude to the wedding festivities, and I’m grateful for moments like these that bring family together.